“A very long time in the past, you talked about you’d by no means shaved or waxed your bikini line,” wrote a reader named Emma. “May you elaborate on why? I’ve at all times puzzled!” Properly, I’m completely happy to share…
My reply is admittedly easy: I’ve delicate pores and skin, and I’m a wuss, haha. I don’t wish to go right into a waxing place and get my hair ripped out; it sounds so painful, omg. Plus, I really feel effective having hair there, and my feeling is that if I’m going to mattress with somebody, I need us each to really feel so excited and heat and completely happy and shut that we’re effective with regardless of the precise hair scenario is on both of our our bodies. One caveat: I don’t have loads of hair, and I believe my reply could be totally different if I had extra rising exterior my swimsuit space.
Additionally, once I was getting again onto the relationship scene, my sister really helpful this bikini trimmer. I attempted it and appreciated it, and now I take advantage of it each time I’m within the temper — most likely each couple months — to have much less hair, while not having to completely shave or wax. It’s utterly painless and sort of enjoyable to mess around with.
Ideas? So curious to listen to what you do and the way you are feeling about it! Each physique is totally different, and folks have all types of preferences and experiences. As with all physique/intercourse/parenting/relationships/life questions, “Good for her, not for me.” xoxo
P.S. Twist: I just like the phrase “moist”, and did you will have intercourse in your wedding ceremony night time? Additionally, 5 methods to speak to children about consent, and why I usually discuss durations with my sons.
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